Saturday, January 19, 2013

What's New....

Wow, as usual it has been quite a while since my last update.  I wish I was better at this.  The blog is such a good way to keep up to date with family and friends that don't do facebook, but I tend to procastinate so much about posting on here that many things get left out or forgotten.  It has been a bit if a stressful fall/winter for us so far.  I am hoping and praying that things are going to be less "exciting" for us this new year.
Since the last post the girls have already started and completed the first half of the 2012-2013 school year.  Hannah is now in the 7th grade and Amelia is in the 4th grade.  Hannah is doing well in Middle School (this is the second year there for her), but she misses the more carefree days of elementary school.  Amelia loves her teacher this year and is also doing very well.  They have both been on the honor roll each time they have gotten report cards this year.  I am very proud of both of them!  They are growing up so fast, and I can't believe that after next year, Hannah will be in High School!!  Although I love watching them grow and seeing the changes in them as they mature, I am also a little sad to see them leaving the innocence of childhood behind.  But no matter how old they get, they will always be my babies.
As some of you may know, a few months ago (during the summer), I started having problems with my vision.  I was seeing double if I tried to look up or to the side.  I was concerned and was planning to call my doctor to schedule a visit.  Before I had done that, I realized one night as I was looking in the mirror, that my right eye was not moving with the left eye when I would try to look up/down/side to side.  It seemed to stay in one spot.  And I also noticed the eyelid was slightly more closed than the left one.  This added a bit of urgency to the task of making a doctor's appointment.  When I went to see him, he was also concerned but said he wanted to do further testing and told me it could be anything from stress to something "terribly horrific".  Well, that was a little disconcerting to say the least.  He ordered some tests, one of which was an MRI.  Turns out my insurance did not want to cover that test, so it took some time to get that worked out.  Before the MRI was scheduled, I returned to the doctor and he was more concerned than before and he called and scheduled me to see a neurologist the next day.  From that visit, I got the orders for the MRI.  I went for that test, thinking I would have the MRI done and then return to the neurologist in 2 weeks for him to tell me the results.  To my surprise they sent me straight from the imaging center to the hospital ER. I was pretty sure this wasn't standard procedure, so at that point I started to become a little alarmed.  Thankfully I have a great boss, and she called to see how the test went, and when I told her they were sending me to the ER, she left work and came to stay with me.  I told her I would be fine, but I was really thankful to have her there.  By they time I got to the ER, I had already opened the envelope they had included for the ER doctors and has read that the MRI showed I had a brain aneurysm.  I still thought I was just going to the ER to consult with a neurologist on staff there.  However, once I got there, they basically told me they were not equipped to deal with my situation and would be transferring me to Tampa General Hospital.  They apparently deal with this type of thing on a much more regular basis, and had a neurosurgeon on staff there that is trained in the procedure I would be needing.  So one ambulance ride later, I was sitting in the ER at Tampa General with my boss and my sister, talking to doctors about brain surgery!!  That was not how I had expected my day to end.  (Thankfully, the girls were already with Steve and he was able to get them home and stay with them the entire time I was in the hospital.  That was a huge relief knowing they were taken care of and able to keep a pretty normal schedule through everything.)  The neurosurgeon told me the aneurysm was located in my right carotid artery, and on a scale of small-medium-large-huge, mine was large-huge.  They did an angiogram the next day, inserting a balloon into that artery and expanding it to cut off the blood flow to see if I could function without that artery.  Turns out I couldn't, so the option of just closing off that artery was out.  This would have been an option of last resort anyway.  Instead, I was a good candidate for a fairly new procedure (performed since 2011) where they go in thru the groin and insert a stent into the artery.  This reduced to blood flow into the aneurysm to the point that it would gradually clot off and the aneurysm will shrink and go away.  This is a slow process and could take about 6 months or so.  Thank the Good Lord above, the procedure went very well and I was home 2 days later. After one brief return to the hospital the following weekend for numbness in my left arm/hand, things have gone pretty well since then.  I was back at work within two weeks.   Unfortunately, I have had a constant headache since Dec. 17th, and nothing I have taken, including prescription medicines, has been able to make it go away.  And for now, my issues with lack of eye movement and the drooping eyelid have gotten a little worse.  This was not totally unexpected.  The doctor had said it could get worse before it gets better, but only time will tell how much better it will get.  The aneurysm pressed on a nerve and the pressure from that paralyzed the nerve and they are not sure how much it will recover.  There are surgeries that can be done to improve my vision and open the eyelid more, but we will wait approximately one year from now to see how much it will change on its own before intervening.  It is very annoying and kind of strange looking, but things could have been so much worse if this had not been found and corrected.
Aside from that, we have just been dealing with regular every day things.  Last week both of the girls came down with the flu.  I think they got it from their dad, as he started with his symptoms a day before Hannah started with hers.  Thankfully, the worst part of the whole thing was dealing with sore throats and coughing and congestion.  They didn't have the body aches or headaches I normally associate with the flu.  They both ran fevers for days on end, and missed an entire week of school, but they are on the mend now.  Aside from being a little tired they are back to being themselves.  Fortunately, they gave me a flu shot while I was in the hospital, and so far it seems to have kept me from getting it.  I am still trying to wash my hands frequently and avoiding sharing germs with either of the girls.
Over the Christmas break from school, Tracy and I and all 5 girls made the trip home to Demopolis to visit Daddy Hawk.  The girls all love going to his house.  They get to play outside all day and run free like you can only do out in the country.  Rachel (Tracy's youngest) loves to swing in the swing Daddy Hawk made from a cherry tree he cut down some years ago, and they all love driving the lawnmowers around and taking turns driving.  I used to love to do that when I was their age too, so I can understand that.  I think by the time our visit is up each time, Daddy Hawk and Grandmama are ready to have their peace and quiet back!!  It is a little bit noisy with 5 girls in the house. I just wish it wasn't so far to travel to visit, so we could do it more often.  The hard part is trying to visit with everyone you want to see while you are there....there is just never enough time.
                                   Amelia  4th Grade                                  Hannah 7th Grade


So now the holidays are over and we are getting ready for spring.  The next big thing is spring break.  Hopefully we can all stay healthy and can plan some fun adventures for that week.  It seems like it is a long time from now, but I know it will sneak up on me and be here before I realize it!

Saturday, September 24, 2011

DeeDee files her nails

Here is a video of DeeDee, one of our female orangutans here at the zoo.  This was taken the other day when the weather was really nasty out, so Dee decided to stay inside that day.  She loves to dress herself in shirts and things, and she likes to have her nails done.  The keeper working with her that day told DeeDee she was busy getting things cleaned, so DeeDee would have to file her own nails.  She usually asks us to do it for her, but as you can see, she is perfectly capable of doing them herself.  :)  (I hope the video link works for you).

Time Marches On.....


Hannah on the first day of Middle School, Aug. 2011
Amelia on the first day of school, 3rd grade, Aug. 2011
Hannah ready to go into school
Amelia at her desk, ready to start the school year

Time marches on.  The new school year has begun, and we have already gotten the first progress reports.  The girls are doing great so far, thankfully.  Hannah started Middle school this year.  Here in Pasco county, Middle School is 6th-8th grade, so even though I feel like she is too young to be there with all those "big" kids, she was ready to make the move.  She has already started acting more mature, and has really gotten more responsible with her schoolwork.  Amelia is enjoying her year so far.  She likes her teacher (every year, she has the "best teacher ever!"), and has really been doing great with her work.  She was so proud of her math test last week.  She got 15/15, and couldn't wait for me to get home so she could show it to me.  I was really proud of her!  And then she told me she thought that kind of grade deserved some kind of reward.  She was going to try to get a new toy out of that deal!  She is always scheming to try to figure out a way to get me to buy her something new.  My reward to her was a big hug and a "way to go Amelia!".  Not exactly what she was hoping for....
We are already looking forward to the holidays.  Of course they are excited about Halloween and trying to decide what they are going to be this year.  Hannah wants to be Lilo from Lilo and Stitch, and Amelia wants to be Taylor Swift.  But I am sure they will change their minds a couple of times between now and then.  Hannah is already trying to decide what she is going to carry with her that can hold the most candy. 
They had their dentist appointments last week.  The dentist advised me to take Hannah to an orthodontist really soon to get the process in motion to get braces on her.  She is really not looking forward to that.  She keeps asking me how bad it hurts to get braces. I don't want to scare her, but I don't want to lie to her either, and they really hurt!!  I hated having braces!!  But she is tough, so I know she will handle it pretty well.  And she will be so glad when she gets them off and sees her new smile. 
We can't decide what our holiday plans are this year.  We are hoping to get to Demopolis either around Thankgiving or Christmas.  We did not make it up this summer to see Daddy, so it will be one year at Thanksgiving since we all saw each other.  I hope we can work someithing out so we can spend one of the holidays together. 

Monday, July 11, 2011

Summer 2011

Wow, I am always surprised when I look back at this and see how much time has passed since my last update. That could either mean that so much has been going on in our lives that I haven't had the time to update it, or that it has been so absolutely boring there is nothing to share! The girls are out of school for the summer. Hannah is now a middle-schooler!!! I cannot believe my little girl is going to be hanging out with Junior high school aged kids now. Scares the beejeezus out of me. I liked it so much better when I was the main influence in her life!! Amelia is going to be on her own at school this year. So far she has always had Hannah there to lend her a helping hand, but this next year she will have to be responsible for herself. That is kind of scary. She is just a little to carefree to ever be confused for responsible, LOL. I am sure she will be fine. She is one of those people that can do whatever she needs/wants to, but as long as someone else is willing to do it, then why bother?!
We have had a fairly uneventful summer so far. Last week the girls spent several days at Tracy's hanging out with the cousins. We capped the long weekend off with a fireworks show on the night of July 4th. Luckily many of Tracy's neighbors had splurged for the really fance fireworks, so we got a nice show and never even left the house. The girls had some really small fireworks (like sparklers and such) to keep them busy for a while. And when we left, even tho they had been there for about 4 days, they were already asking me (as we were pulling out of the driveway) when they could go back to visit again. I am so thankful Tracy is willing to put up with all 5 girls at a time every summer. It is one of the things they most look forward to every year. And even tho they are fighting with each other by the end of the visit, I really believe they are creating some of the best memories of their lives. I wouldn't trade anything for the memories of all the time I spent with my cousins when we were growing up.
The girls have also spent a good amount of time at the beach already this summer. Steve's parents have a condo at Flagler Beach, so he has taken the girls up there 3 times already, and they are going for a week long visit for Hannah's birthday next week. I will miss having them here, but I know they will have a great time. But they never take any pictures, so I won't be sharing any of those!!
Anyway, I am going to hopefully get a few new pictures uploaded to the site from the past few months. Hope everyone is doing well. Take care!!

Monday, November 22, 2010

NUBBIN

On a very sad note, we just lost our sweet girl, Nubbin this last weekend (Nov. 13, 2010). She had been with me for 14 years. I had her before I was even engaged. So she shared all of the big events of my life with me (marriage, kids, moving, new pets, etc..). She was a pit bull/english bulldog mix, and was deaf from birth. Lots of people would shy away from her because she resembled a pit bull more than anything else, but Nubbin was anything but scary! She was one of the sweetest dogs you could meet. The most dangerous thing about her was her breath! She was so tolerant of the girls when they were babies, even though she was not that crazy about babies. And she was such a help with baby animals we brought home from the zoo to care for. We have video of her trying to get an Axis deer fawn to play ball with her. She could have easily hurt him, but that never seemed to cross her mind. As a result of being deaf, she could sleep like nobody's business. This is evident in the pictures below. And nothing made her happier than to be right beside you. There were times I complained because I could not turn around without falling over her because no matter where I went, she was right behind me. But now that she is gone, I miss having her here. Every morning when I get up, I look to make sure I am not going to step on her, only to realize she is not there. We are really going to miss her, and there will never be another one quite like her. Thanks for letting us be your family for so long Nubbin.

Me, Hannah and Nubbin in Gulf Breeze
Nubbin and Leah after our New Year's Celebration

Nubbin


HALLOWEEN 2010


Since the last blog, the girls have almost completed the first half of the school year!! Is time going as fast for everyone else as it is for me? It is already Thanksgiving this week, and that means Christmas is just around the corner. I am not ready yet! It seems like once Halloween arrives, then time just flies from then until the end of the year. It doesn't help that Halloween decorations are on sale in the store right next to the Christmas decorations. And speaking of Halloween, ours was a good one this year. Hannah and Amelia were both witches, as was Chloe, my "adopted" daughter from next door. They had planned to go as the 3 Blind Mice, but somewhere along the way, plans changed. I didn't care as long as I didn't have to make a costume! They looked cute and got sooo much candy. Hannah wanted to carry a pillowcase for her candy. Nobody needs that much candy. As it is, they are still eating on it tonight as I type. I think dentist are behind the whole Halloween candy thing. It has to really be good for business. Anyway, here are a few pictures from the night, in case you have not seen them already on Facebook.

Hannah



Chloe and Amelia (and friend)





Amelia, Hannah and Chloe

Tuesday, September 21, 2010